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Time to make bullying a thing of the past

<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Bullying is an issue for all schools &&num;8211&semi; and 94 per cent of teachers in New Zealand admit that they are unsure how to handle it&period; The facts are stark – rates of bullying in New Zealand are very high compared with other countries&comma; and there is no evidence that things are getting any better&period;<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">High numbers of students self-report they are bullied on a regular basis and about a quarter do not feel safe enough to tell someone&period;  Bullying in primary schools has not reduced at all during the past 20 years&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Sadly&comma; the impacts of bullying are all too familiar&semi; students who report frequent bullying have significantly lower achievement in mathematics and science&comma; and studies reveal that many victims suffer psychological distress long into adulthood&period; The outcomes for bullies are poor&comma; too&period; According to research published in medical journal The Lancet&comma; they are much more likely than others to wind up with drug addictions or a criminal record&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">So how can we turn around our appalling record on bullying&quest; Experts say the solution entails buy-in from the whole school community – students&comma; teachers and parents – to affect the change in the social attitudes that is required&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Deidre Vercauteren is education manager of KiVa&comma; an anti-bullying programme that was developed in Finland and recently introduced to 12 New Zealand schools&period; She says the first attitude that needs to change is the belief that we don’t have a problem&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It has to be accepted and said that all schools have bullying incidents&comma; and it needs to be acknowledged that schools that put resources into prevention are forward-thinking schools&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Secondly&comma; there is the attitude that bullying is &OpenCurlyQuote;just part of growing up’&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Our kids have the right to live in a safe environment and should not have to experience bullying&period; Ever&period; And thirdly&comma; that punishment or making the bully say they are sorry is ever going to make a difference&period; We need a cultural change&comma; a change of attitudes&comma; more empathy&comma; and heightened awareness&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">The first step is to define what constitutes bullying&period; According to the Ministry of Education&comma; the definition of bullying is based on four characteristics&colon; it is deliberate&comma; harmful&comma; involves a power imbalance&comma; and has an element of repetition&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">And there are three key players – the bully&comma; the victim and the bystander&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;A bystander is someone who sees bullying happening and chooses to react by laughing&comma; giggling&comma; pointing&comma; staring&comma; doing nothing&comma; whispering to other people about it and&sol;or gossiping about it&comma;” says Vicki Edwards-Brown from youth charity&comma; Be The Change NZ&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;They might play &&num;8216&semi;the messenger&&num;8217&semi; between bully and victim&comma; spread rumours they have heard or join in when a bully is ignoring&sol;excluding someone&period; Or a bystander might &&num;8216&semi;like&&num;8217&semi; a mean post on Facebook&comma; Instagram or other social media sites&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Programmes run by Be the Change NZ teach students how to move from bystander to &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;upstander” &&num;8211&semi; a person who stands up for something&comma; and take action in defence of others&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">The bystander is also at the focus of KiVa’s programme&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;KiVa is a whole-school strategy&comma; and a key feature of the programme involves focusing on the role of the bystander&comma;” says Ms Vercauteren&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Studies show that the behaviour of bystanders is a significant factor in the prevalence of bullying&comma; whereas a traditional zero-tolerance approach at a school level can often make things worse for the victim&period; KiVa offers bullies the chance to change their behaviour before things escalate&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">KiVa involves lessons&comma; discussions&comma; group work and online games to promote social skills&comma; and&comma; in cases where bullying is identified&comma; has a set&comma; solution-focused approach which can involve a bully’s peers&comma; and all with a constant emphasis on positive behaviour&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">An important aspect of the programme involves developing empathy in students&comma; thereby providing a foundation for developing friendships&comma; resolving conflicts and behaving responsibly&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Results from a study carried out in Finland involving 28&comma;000 pupils and 234 schools showed a significant reduction in bullying after one year of implementing KiVa&period; This was demonstrated by a 98 per cent improvement in the victims’ situations and an end to bullying in 86 per cent of reported incidents&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Teachers can help by modelling respectful behaviour&comma; and not allowing personal beliefs to affect a duty to their students&comma; says Toni Duder&comma; from LGBTIQ charity Rainbow Youth&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It’s okay for teachers to believe whatever they want believe&comma; but they have a duty of care to their students to provide unbiased learning&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It takes a norm-busting approach&period; Get students to look critically at everyday behaviour that may exclude or bully people&period; With &lpar;the expression&rpar; &OpenCurlyQuote;that’s so gay’ &&num;8211&semi; do a social experiment&period; Get people to start saying &OpenCurlyQuote;that’s so straight’ &&num;8211&semi; turn the tables&period; And put up posters and signs to give visibility to LGBTIQ identities&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Of course&comma; bullying is not confined to real life interactions&period; A global survey by Vodafone and YouGov of 5&comma;000 teenagers across eleven countries reveals that around one in five teenagers has been cyberbullied and more than half say they fear cyberbullying more than face-to-face bullying&period; More than 40 per cent of teens think cyberbullying is a bigger problem than drug abuse&comma; and 41 per cent commented that cyberbullying has made them feel depressed or helpless&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Cyber bullying can be carried out through social media&comma; TXTs&comma; websites or instant messaging&comma; and can present itself in upsetting or threatening messages&comma; rumours or embarrassing photos or videos posted online&period; And with 24&sol;7 access to digital channels&comma; the target can often feel there is no escape&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Students who are cyber-bullied are very likely to be bullied in other ways&comma; too&comma; says Ms Vercauten&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It is a proven fact that if a student is bullied over social media then they are likely to be bullied in other ways as well&period; The bully&sol;bullies more than likely go to the same school&period; If the victim is unhappy&comma; anxious&comma; does not want to go to school&comma; has diminishing achievement&comma; it is most certainly something the school must address&period; However&comma; this doesn’t mean it is the schools &OpenCurlyQuote;fault’&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">The MOE organises advice into four sections – understanding bullying&comma; what constitutes a safe school environment&comma; policies and processes around bullying&comma; and tools and processes for responding to bullying&period; It advocates prevention as the way forward&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">In addition to the MOE&comma; there are a number of resources available to schools to help tackle bullying&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<ul style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&NewLine;<li><strong>KiVa<&sol;strong>&comma; an anti-bullying programme run by Accent Learning&comma; Wellington&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li><strong>Pink Shirt Day<&sol;strong> – a one-day event organised by the Mental Health Foundation to promote bullying-free environments in schools&comma; workplaces and communities&period; This initiative started in Canada in 2007 and has been running in New Zealand since 2009&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li><strong>The Peace Foundation<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; teaches schools how to set up peer mediation programmes&comma; and ways to teach conflict management skills&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li><strong>Kia Kaha<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; a programme run by New Zealand Police which includes resources for students in years 0 to 13&comma; teachers and principals&comma; Boards of Trustees and parents&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li><strong>Rainbow Youth<&sol;strong> – a charity set up to conquer homophobia which delivers workshops to teachers and students&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li><strong>Be The Change NZ<&sol;strong> &&num;8211&semi; a charity to empower young people to make positive changes in their school and communities&period; Delivers programmes&comma; workshops and assembly talks&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<&sol;ul>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It can be hard to confront the fact that attitudes and beliefs that we are taught from birth to be natural are actually man-made&comma; says Ms Duder&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It can be hard to realise that a system and a society that you benefit in may not work for others&comma; and that if we put those most vulnerable at the centre of reform and change&comma; everyone benefits&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Teachers don’t need to have all the answers when it comes to bullying&comma; they just need to take them seriously and guide the students involved towards people&comma; places or resources that can help them&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">KiVa is an internationally proven anti-bullying programme for schools which has recently been introduced in New Zealand&period; It was developed in Finland&comma; and to date more than 90 per cent of schools in Finland are KiVa schools&period; Bullying incidents in these schools are significantly reduced&comma; and there is evidence of an increase in students enjoying school and achieving better&period;<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">Accent Learning&comma; a team of professional development providers based at Victoria University&comma; is the exclusive New Zealand KiVa licence holder&period; All Accent staff have been trained by the Finnish researchers and programme developers and have to date completed training for 12 schools here&period;<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;We start by discussing the definition of bullying&comma;” says education manager Deidre Vercauteren&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The universally accepted definition is behaviour designed to cause harm or discomfort&comma; that is repeated&comma; and is targeted at someone less powerful than you&period;<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;It is never OK&comma; and the impact is severe and long lasting&semi; many adults say that bullying they suffered at school still negatively impacts on their lives now&period;”<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">There are three units to KiVa – junior primary&comma; senior primary and junior secondary&comma; and it is delivered in two parts&period; The first part is prevention which continues throughout the school year&comma; the key being in changing the role of the bystander from passive to active&period; The second part is in the hands of the school’s KiVa team who are trained to deal with any incidents of bullying that arise in &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;short&comma; sharp and frequent meetings”&period;<&sol;h4>&NewLine;<h4 style&equals;"text-align&colon; justify&semi;">All programmes kick off with a parent evening where the principal explains what KiVa is and why the school is involved&period; Newsletters are sent home and students get a password to use to access online anti bullying tools which include interactive games they can share with the family&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;We hope that children will involve their parents as much as possible so that everyone’s awareness of bullying behaviour is heightened&period;”<&sol;h4>&NewLine;

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